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HOW A WRITER FOUND SOBRIETY AND WOVE AA TRUISISM INTO AN INCREDIBLE VOLUME

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There’s an old saying, write what you know, and Neil Steinberg, a columnist for the Chicago Sun-Times, has written about his addiction and recovery in several books including his memoir Drunkard, and Out of the Ashes I rise, where he wove together a number of AA truisms into a great narrative.

For the last year, Steinberg has been touring and promoting Ashes, including a recent appearance at Harper College, where the university described the book as “structured to follow the arduous steps to sobriety…the book shares the wisdom of centuries and explores essential topics, including the importance of time, navigating family and friends, Alcoholics Anonymous, relapse, and the reward that is recovery…The result is a mosaic of observations and encouragement that draws on writers and artists spanning thousands of years,” whether it’s the great Greek philosophers to rock n roll poets.

The introduction of the book is “Why Put It Off?” and as he tells DNAinfo, “Poetry helps…philosophy helps.” He also quoted a British novelist, Zadie Smith: “Other people’s words are the bridge you use to cross from where you were to wherever you’re going.”

Many writers fall in love with literature and storytelling, and as Steinberg continued, “You cannot just give up something. You have to have something to replace it…For me it’s reading. When you’re an addict, recovery is an intimate thing, and reading these quotes is almost as if you take your deepest, darkest secrets and every great poet and writer is going to talk to you about it.”

These AA truisms have helped Steinberg stay sober, and he concludes that “recovery is the path of the hero. It’s a difficult, arduous effort…It’s like climbing a mountain. And these people, these writers, can help you make it.”

BRETT FAVRE REVEALS PAST ADDICTIONS AND REHAB TRIPS 

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There are many professions where people can be vulnerable to addiction, and sports is certainly one of them. Many players can get addicted to painkillers and other drugs that come with a high-flying lifestyle. Now Brett Favre has come forward to confess that he’s struggled with addiction and has taken three trips to rehab. 

 

As Yahoo Sports reports, Favre took one trip to rehab that the public knows about for Vicodin addiction. 1995 was an MVP year for Favre, but as he says, “That year, when I woke up in the morning, my first thought was, ‘I gotta get more pills.’ I took 14 Vicodin, yes, one time. I was getting an hour or two of sleep many nights. Maybe 30 minutes of quality sleep. I was the MVP on a pain-pill buzz. The crazy thing was, I’m not a night owl. Without pills, I’d fall asleep at 9:30. But with pills, I could get so much done.” 

 

Favre’s wife would find his Vicodin and flush them down the toilet, and finally, he spent 72 days in rehab. But as Favre confirms, “I actually went to rehab three times. I saw the most successful, smart people – doctors, professional people – lose it all, ruin their lives.” Favre didn’t think he had a problem the second time, but his wife and sports agent Bus Cook convinced him to go.  

 

Favre also had a drinking problem. “When I drank, I drank to excess. They said drinking was the gateway drug for me, and they were right, but I wouldn’t admit it.” Favre went back one more time for a 28-day stint, and apparently, that did the trick.  

 

“When I got out, the toughest thing was the first three months,” he said. “Because I had to change my thought process. When I played golf before, I realized the only reason I wanted to play was to drink. After a while, instead of thinking, ‘How many beers can we drink in 18 holes?’ I fell into a pattern of what could I do to get good at golf. I realized with each passing day I really didn’t like drinking.”  

 

A NEW DOCUMENTARY TAKES A HARD LOOK AT ADDICTION 

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There have been many great movies, books, cable series and documentaries about addiction that can be both horrifying and illuminating to the world. Many everyday people who don’t understand addiction can learn a lot from them, and now there’s a hard-hitting new short documentary, The Pull, that deals with a man, John Bixby, who isn’t yet thirty, but who has been struggling for addiction for over ten years. 

 Bixby is hooked on opioids and has done time in jail. This documentary, which was created for the New York Times, shows Bixby incarcerated, and how he’s struggled to try and clean up his life. At one point in the documentary, he admits, “I know I’m not gonna stop unless I want to. The only time I’ve kicked is…I’ve done it on the streets on my own, it’s never lasted, jail is the only way I’ve stopped for a while.”  

 The Pull was directed by Paul Szynol, and as he writes in the New York Times, “Films that confront pain are films that confront a taboo; they make us uncomfortable. On the one hand, we respond to the content itself, to the visibility of something that we strive to eradicate or at least avoid.” 

 Szynol acknowledges that a documentary like this can lead to charges of exploitation, but as he explains, “Addicts in the United States are largely treated as criminals, their identities reduced to legal charges and chemical doses. Addiction is seen as self-inflicted failure; the etiology is passed over in silence. Because the victims are the perpetrators, the supply of empathy is limited.” 

 In documenting Bixby’s addiction, Szynol says “the point is to restore three-dimensionality and incarnate the individual. Those ugly moments – moments of heartache, despondency, wretchedness – are not only symbolic of addiction in general but also defining parts of John’s story.” In the film “John recaptures the narrative about his own suffering, and allows us to respond in the way that systemic criminalization of addiction doesn’t: with empathy and understanding.”  

 

 

SENATOR TAMMY BALDWIN CONFESSES HER MOTHER’S ADDICTION IN A NEW TV AD 

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Tammy Baldwin is a U.S. Senator from Wisconsin who is currently up for re-election in November, and now she’s talking to the public with a strong personal message, openly confessing that her mother suffered from prescription drugs. 

 

As the Fix reports, Baldwin says in her new TV spot, “My mother had a drug abuse problem. She struggled with addiction to prescription drugs her whole life. I had to grow up fast, very fast.” Baldwin has also been seeing the specter of opioids hitting her native state of Wisconsin, which is why she feels compelled to speak out as well. 

 

“When I see the opioid crisis that’s wrecking so many Wisconsin families, all I can tell you is I’ve been there. I know how hard this fight is. I know the stigma that comes with drug abuse and mental illness.”  

 

A common saying in recovery is you’re only as sick as your secrets, and as Baldwin told the Associated Press, “What good does it do if everyone just keeps their little secrets? How are we really going to understand that this affects all of us? I’ve seen it over and over and over again, the power of telling your story.”  

 

Many have been crying out to the government to do more to fight addiction, and last year Baldwin introduced new legislation where she wants to invest $45 billion to fight opioids.  

 

“Washington must step up to be a stronger partner in this fight by investing in local prevention, treatment and recovery efforts,” she says. “Our legislation is a commonsense, bipartisan-based solution to address the national opioid crisis with stable, long-term support that will strengthen state and local resources.”  

 

FORMER NBA PLAYER CHRIS HERREN TALKS ABOUT COMING BACK FROM ADDICTION 

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Chris Herren had the kind of career trajectory athletes that dream of. He went from being a college legend to playing for the Boston Celtics and the Denver Nuggets. But Herren suffered from addiction for fourteen years, and he told CNN, “I did my first line of cocaine at 18, and it took 14 years to stop.” 

 

With Herren, addiction started at home, and he recalls, “I grew up in a family that suffered from alcoholism…We all get sick in this process. Family members have broken hearts, and people who are suffering have broken souls. That person suffering is going to walk out into the arms of family members, and we need them to be as healthy as possible to support them.”  

 

Herren’s addiction transitioned from cocaine to Vicodin to heroin, and his basketball career was over by 2006. He hit bottom when he wound up clinically dead from on overdose for thirty seconds. With the help of his wife and a close friend in the NBA, Herren got help. “They reached out to me and gave me the greatest gift any family could give someone, a chance to get well,” Herren says. 

 

Like many in recovery, Herren wants to pay it forward, and he’s been helping others suffering from addiction since 2011. “My whole purpose with this is to break the stigma [with addiction], and eliminate the rock bottoms.” 

 

In helping others, Herren wants to make sure that today’s generation has the support they need when they’re facing down addiction. “There’s not enough support for those kids who want to make the right choice,” he says. “The scariest thing about kids, the scariest thing about addiction, is nobody knows who has it.”  

 

 

BOY GEORGE REJOICES IN HIS RECOVERY 

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Boy George, the lead singer of Culture Club, is one of the legendary icons of the eighties. George had a number of hits that many fondly remember today like Karma Chameleon before he succumbed to addiction and disappeared off the radar. Now George is celebrating a decade sober, and he told Black Hill Pioneer that sobriety “has set me free.” 

 

George is currently a judge on the Australian edition of The Voice, and he said when you “get through the other side, you get a life beyond your wildest dreams because recovery really does set you free.”  

 

As The Fix reports, when George was in his second year of sobriety, he tried to get the late Amy Winehouse to get help in 2011. “Come to a meeting babe,” he told her. “Do you know how loved you are?” 

 

George’s sober date is March 2, 2008, and he said in an interview, “Now, I’m the person I should be. I cherish the moderate life now. I don’t want drama or complication. In the past, if someone were to ask me if I had any regrets, I would have said absolutely none. I would have been so defiant. Now, I can actually say that I do have lots of regrets. I think it’s good to be aware of what you’ve done and just say: ‘You know, I don’t want to do that again.’”  

 

HOW A FUNERAL DIRECTOR IS TRYING TO SCARE PEOPLE STRAIGHT ON ADDICTION 

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To help raise awareness about addiction, when some families lose a loved one to drugs they often allow the newspaper obituary to be brutally honest about how they died, hoping it will scare some who suffer from addiction straight. Now a funeral director is trying a similar approach as a tool to help fight against opioids. 

 

As The Guardian reports, Staten Island funeral director Kevin Moran spoke at a local boys school, where he told the parents in attendance, “I am the one you never want to meet.” Moran spoke at a “scared straight” event for families, and he was one of a number of people to speak out about the horrors of addiction.  

 

In Staten Island, where Moran is based, opioids have hit hard. In 2016, the area reportedly had “the highest per capita rate of opioid deaths in New York City at 32 per 100,000 people.” To hammer the point home, Moran let a large number of death certificates scroll out in front of him, and they were only the death certificates from the last four months.  

 

Moran became a public speaker against addiction when he was approached by a nurse four years ago. The nurse wanted her speaking engagements to have more impact, and she told him, “We have to step it up a notch. We have to scare the crap out of them.” And by speaking out now, hopefully, he can save lives down the road. “There’s nothing I can do for the person who died,” Moran says. “My job is to help the living.” 

 

 

The Difference Between Rehab and Sober Living in Southern California

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As the drug epidemic continues to spread across America, more and more addiction treatment centers and sober living homes are abounding, especially here in Los Angeles and Southern California. Before choosing a treatment option, however, it’s important to understand the difference between drug rehab and sober living. In fact, these days it is becoming much more prevalent to find upscale and highly structured sober livings (addiction recovery homes) providing treatment center type services. We refer to them as PHP (partial hospitalization) programs, and they are fast becoming a primary approach toward treating drug and alcohol addictions.

Drug Rehab

Drug rehab is the first step and primary source for recovery from drug addiction, alcoholism and dual diagnosis (a co-occurring disorder of addiction and mental health illness). A proper evaluation and diagnosis by a licensed psychiatrist specializing in addiction treatment in California will determine whether your situation would best be suited for inpatient/residential rehab or outpatient rehab. Residential rehab is when the patient lives at the treatment facility for either a short term of 30 to 90 days or long-term inpatient drug rehab extending up to 12 months. They must stay and leave behind jobs, home and relationships and focus on just their recovery.

Outpatient rehab allows the patient to remain in their own home or in a sober living home while frequenting rehab for recovery services. The staff is composed of clinical and therapeutic treatment professionals with a plethora of treatment options that should be individualized for the patient’s specific needs. Alcohol addiction recovery time will vary from person to person, as will drug addiction recovery time.

Quite often, medical detox will be the first phase of recovery when entering drug rehab. Detox can take anywhere from several hours to days at an inpatient drug rehab. The next stage in recovery is dealing with the underlying causes for the drug or alcohol addiction through various treatment modalities (clinical and holistic) such as therapy, group support, family involvement, etc. If there is also a dual diagnosis, the treatment must address the addiction and the mental health disorder separately. The next phase of recovery is aftercare or sober living which is comprised of services and structure supporting a balanced and healthy life in recovery.

What is Sober Living & Recovery Housing?

Sober living homes are transitional residences where those in recovery live together. It’s difficult to just return to your own home, neighborhood, and friends, with the reminders of your past experiences with drug and alcohol addiction. While living at a sober living home, total abstinence from any alcohol or drugs is mandatory. The best sober living homes surround you with people who understand your situation and can support you in your recovery. Sober living homes may be co-ed or gender-specific whereby men and women live separately.

When choosing a new home which is dedicated to sober living Southern California, you need to be sure it’s the right choice for you. Researching the ‘best sober living homes near me’ is the natural place to begin but don’t necessarily settle for the first one you find. Sober living homes cost a different amount depending on where you stay.

Epiphany Sober Living Southern California has three sober living homes including two sober living for men residences and a women’s sober living home:

Sunset House Los Angeles is a three-story residence for men located near the 405 freeway between Brentwood and Bel-Air;

Roxbury House near Beverly Hills is a two-story comfortably furnished home for men with high ceilings, a marble staircase and multiple lounge areas;

Benicia House Los Angeles for women is in an upscale Los Angeles neighborhood called Holmby Hills which is within walking distance of Century City Mall and multiple bus routes.

Each sober living residence has its own structure, rules, and expectations, all designed to help people stay sober and ensure a successful recovery. Services such as the 12-step program are common practice at sober living homes. Sober living homes are uniquely poised to provide a safe place for those in need of a secure structure to ensure a successful recovery.

Many sober living homes have relationships with outpatient treatment centers and provide travel from the residence in order to facilitate a sober routine. They allow you the opportunities to create a whole new healthier lifestyle, including work, relationships, physical fitness, and well-being. The difference between one sober living home and another is usually characterized by the location, comfort, gender, and cost. Epiphany Sober Living of Southern California prides its reputation on offering upscale and comfortable residences that are more affordable than others in their category.

To learn more about the differences between drug rehab and sober living homes and which treatment options are best for your individual needs, please contact Epiphany Sober Living at (844) 229-6636.

 

Welcome To Epiphany Sober Living

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This is where upscale & structured sober living intersects with hope, desire and preparation…

This is where it all happens, where lifelong friendships take root and where the seeds of change in recovery are given a chance to blossom unlike ever before.  For anyone out there who has struggled through the grips of drug and alcohol addictions, or of countless painful relapses or anything of the sort, this right here is an opportunity to “reset the system” and re-engage sobriety from a new perspective.

Epiphany Sober Livings and Addiction Recovery Residences strives to remain a leader throughout the Los Angeles area, and beyond!  And in this striving for greatness we commit to doing more and more with each passing day.  As many others showed us the way from very early on, we too have taken on that honor of passing it on and helping others to rise above addiction once and for all!

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